His "nursery" was 5 steps from our bed. It held his bed, dresser, diapers and anything you could shove under the crib. It was soooo nice to have him in our room, yet something that we could call his. It was a perfect solution to not enough room and being within "ear" distance for anything we needed to do.....which back then was feeds via NG tube every 4 hours. Man that seems so long ago.....
Saturday, June 6, 2009
Countdown--15 days to go
His "nursery" was 5 steps from our bed. It held his bed, dresser, diapers and anything you could shove under the crib. It was soooo nice to have him in our room, yet something that we could call his. It was a perfect solution to not enough room and being within "ear" distance for anything we needed to do.....which back then was feeds via NG tube every 4 hours. Man that seems so long ago.....
Friday, June 5, 2009
The countdown....16 days to go
When I went into labor, Chiefs opening day on Sept 11, 2005….we were watching the ball game between contractions. Everyone in my family was in the room; my Grandmother from New York was in town, nieces, nephews….everyone was there to support us and our journey with Tucker.
I got to hold Tucker twice before they rushed him out of the room and into the NICU for observation and preparation for transportation to the Children’s hospital. I can still remember…he was wrapped like a papoose, tight as can be, white hat on his head…he opened his eyes and stopped crying as soon as he was handed to me. OHHH those eyes….his eyes say it all. He takes everything in, looks into your soul almost….it was the first time but not the last that his eyes would calm us.
Thursday, June 4, 2009
Tucker Makes The News
Finding the melody |
News - Community News |
Written by Ray Weikal |
Thursday, 04 June 2009 00:01 |
Local child with Down syndromeprepares for innovative open-heart surgery Editor’s note: Since April 2006, Sun News has run a series of articles following the family of Todd, Karen and Tucker Bryant and the challenges they have faced with Tucker’s Down syndrome and heart condition. The best gift Todd Bryant will get on Father’s Day is saying goodbye to his son. Bryant’s youngest child, Tucker, will leave his Northland home Sunday, June 21, for cutting-edge surgery to repair his ailing heart. Since the day Tucker Bryant was born with Down syndrome and a failing heart, he’s never had an easy life. This will be Tucker’s third heart procedure in as many years, so he’s an old hand at this stuff. "He’s a ball of fire," Todd Bryant said. "He finds the melody in everything." For Mom and Dad, though, it never gets any easier. But this should be the last time they go through this ordeal, if all goes well. Karen learned of her son’s condition early in her pregnancy after a check revealed Tucker had too many of the chromosomes that act as the body’s genetic building blocks. The couple quickly set aside the abortion option and set about learning how to care for their new child with special needs. It’s a decision Todd and Karen Bryant have never regretted, especially when they watch Tucker hang up his coat, play, laugh and learn in his new life as a student in the early childhood education program in the Platte County R-3 School District. Tucker’s condition makes his parents attuned to these small, satisfying moments. "It’s not very many parents that get to notice those little things," Karen Bryant said. Surgery in Boston Tucker was never supposed to go to Boston, where his upcoming surgery will take place. But last October, the Bryants learned that Tucker’s heart and lung pressure were too high and that the previously planned final operation at Children’s Mercy Hospital was dangerous enough to be cancelled. Then a chance encounter at a Christmas party changed things. Karen Bryant decided at the last minute to attend an event thrown by the Kansas City Down Syndrome Guild. She happened to sit next to Kim Knipp, whose 2-year-old son, Will, had a heart condition similar to Tucker’s. Knipp told Bryant about her son’s progress following a relatively new procedure performed by Dr. Pedro del Nido at Children’s Hospital in Boston. It was a permanently repaired heart, Knipp explained, like a car with a rebuilt engine. Del Nido had found a way to use surgical robots, digital imagers and other techniques to repair congenital heart defects in the tiny, delicate bodies of children like Tucker. Del Nido’s work garnered a $5 million grant from National Institutes of Health. Within a month, Karen Bryant had lined up the procedure for her son. Knipp connected Karen Bryant with a cadre of other moms going through similar experiences. They’ve helped the Bryants sort through the hundreds of small details that demand attention when planning a trip like this. "Since I’ve met Kim, she’s put me in the middle of that network," Bryant said. "It’s been great having those moms." On June 25, the power plant of Tucker’s body — his heart — will be rebuilt. Six weeks of in-patient recovery will follow. The family has hopes for a major celebration when it’s time for his fourth birthday this fall. Despite the pain of surgery, the fear of not getting help to Bryant in time when his oxygen levels fall too low, the millions of dollars in medical bills and thousands natural moments of stress for any parent — despite all that — the little guy’s heart is too strong to give up, and that’s enough to provide the strength needed for his mom and dad. "After a while, you change your mind about wanting to take away your child’s Down syndrome," Todd Bryant said. "You won’t want to change a thing. It makes him who he is." HELPING TUCKER BRYANT To learn more about Tucker Bryant and his family, or to make a donation to help with his medical bills, visit bryantfamilynews.blogspot.com. Staff writer Ray Weikal can be reached at 389-6637 or rayweikal@npgco.comThis e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it . |
The Countdown-17 days left
At that same appointment I got to see Tucker’s toes, his heart, his nose that looks like mine. He was moving and growing at the right rate. I was over 35, barely, so close “watchful” eyes were upon this pregnancy.
At this same appointment a well trained eye saw a problem, a few signs…a heart with a hole in it, a “sandal” toe, thickening of the neck. I thought the “sandal” toe was so darn cute….the big toe hanging out there, separate from the others. We got sonogram pictures of it….he was so perfect!!!
It is amazing how, to the untrained, loving mother, cant wait to hold him and love him eyes, we see NO wrong. I didn’t see anything they did….just a boy that would take my heart and run with it.
I think Tucker sees the world as a loving mother does her unborn child and what a great thing that is. Maybe if we all did that, maybe this world would be a better place
Wednesday, June 3, 2009
I am going to blog each day for the next 18 days, about my son, our hero. It might be a funny story or a tidbit from our past. It might be a picture of my handsome guy or a look to the future……join me in celebrating Tuckers life with us this far, take him into your hearts…..and remember him in your prayers!!! Enjoy the glimpse and please COMMENT when you feel the urge…..We love you all.!!!
Tuesday, June 2, 2009
Scrapbook Winner
And now, for the winner of the very cool Flip Flop Scrapbook Giveaway!
(Random.org chose #9)